Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Taking a Break

Spring Break was fun, fast, and fabulous(ish).

We started with Mom coming here for Erica's shower, then we went home with her for the week to get ready for Erica's shower there. In between showers, we visited with friends, played at the park, ate Poppa Rollo's pizza TWICE, acquired a new pet snail named Faith Apricot, and saw my Granny and Grandaddy. It was a good week.

Poor Tyson stared his new job and could not go with us. So glad for the job, so sad it started on the day we had planned to leave!

The ish in fabulous is because Tracen got a weird rash and started coughing. It was a very tight, classically Tracen/rsv cough. All. Night. Long. 3 more nights of my life trying to stop a kiddo from coughing. It was so sad, and so tiring. The worst part was that he was on Benadryl because of the rash(we think it was from an ant bite, he's allergic), and he could not wake up in the middle of the night well to get a drink or take meds or sit up or move at all. 3 days ran together, and I ended up having to drive back to the flatlands on 2 hours of sleep. Scary. The traffic was so bad that my adrenaline was going, so that helped. I thought about being upset with all the traffic, but then realized this constant passing, speeding, crazy drivers all around situation was keeping me awake. Thanks, God.

The other ish is because when we got in town I drove straight to church to lead the kiddos for the musical. Tracen had been coughing and was so tired that I had Tyson take him and Mailey home instead of staying at church. Afterwards I hear that Tracen fell and had ice on his arm, but it was nothing. At home I get the whole story, and find out they stopped at a playground on the way home and Tracen's foot got caught in a rope spider climber thing. He fell and broke his fall with his hand. After checking him out and noticing a bump where no bone should bump, Tyson took him to the ER. I totally put a board book, Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See?, under his arm and wrapped it for support. I also made him go to the ER like that. I think his dad was embarassed. I think it was awesome. It was, indeed, broken. His right radius has a buckle fracture about an inch before his wrist. He has a sweet blue cast for a month, then a re-check to see if it needs more time. No baseball for awhile, and his first game is Saturday. So Sad. I am glad it was not a traumatic experience for him, though. No setting it or anything. Whew.
Proud man

So, that is it in a nutshell.

Why on earth it is in the 40s on the first day of Spring here, I will never know. I've been seeing a recurring pattern for years. We need a warm vacation. Soon.

Playing at the park



I do it by myself
Oh that face
Then happy!

Scott and sleepy Mailey
Mim and Mailey on same horse she rode with Makenna as a little girl and me
Kids on the train
Archer's first train ride
A very normal face of the girl :)
Auntnie and Erica at the Waco shower
Hostesses
Gifts
The Bride-to-be at her Lubbock shower
My girls


Amazing quilt Derrick's grandmother is making from his grandfather's ties

No fear
Mim and Mailey
Momma and her faves...you should totally click this pic and look at Mailey's face. Hilarity.

Sliding with Kate
They really like each other
Kiddos
Kids and a Kate

Makenna and Kate
Playing at Granny and Grandaddy's farm, Mailey holding sweet Faith Apricot so she can go on a ride

Thursday, March 8, 2012

Spring has left the building

Today is crazy! Freezing, hurricane-force winds, possible snow...and yesterday was 80! Weather in the flatlands is never predictable.

Though it is not technically Spring, and the weather is telling me this in a huge, loud, obnoxious way today, I wanted to update on some new things in our life.

1. February was still the month it always is for our family, bringing sickness and major yucks.
Mailey was sick with ear infections, a virus that "mimics the flu," and severe bronchitis/rsv for about 3 and a half weeks. It was so sad to see her feel so awful, then cough without stopping for hours on top of it all. I have never had a kid cough for that many days with that intensity. Tracen gets very sick very quickly, and Makenna can cough for weeks, but the choking, in between every single breath coughing for hours at a time nearly did us in. It is all so weird because Mailey has been very healthy. The last time she was at the doctor was for her 2 year old well visit. In our family that is a miracle. 3 antibiotics, 5 doctor visits, 2 bottles of Dimetap and Ibuprofen, and a major case of 'roid rage, she is (kind of) back to normal.
Makenna got pink eye and an upper respiratory, but was doing great in a day or two.
Tracen got pink eye in both eyes to such a degree his eyes were swollen nearly shut and I used an entire box of kleenex, ummmm, getting out the goo. gag. Then poor boy was great, came home from baseball practice and started screaming and sobbing because his ear hurt so badly. After going to the clinic, sitting by the flu and people puking into trash cans, oh my word, and him rocking and crying for 2 hours, they said his ears were so bad one was about to rupture. Duh. So he is on meds and doing better.
Tyson also was in bed for days with sinus stuff.
I have had 2 fever blisters in a week due to lack of sleep and running on empty. (if you do not get those, thank Jesus right now. do it. because i despise them.)
February, we still cannot get past you.

2. Makenna went to a super doctor that is very hard to get in to. She is a behavioral specialist and has given us many tools and a month to see if my eldest can exhibit self-control over her defiance. I really cannot explain how bad it is. Most do not believe it until they happen to be here when it happens. Then shock and awe ensue. Joking aside, though the reality is that is true, it is the absolute hardest part of our days and nights here. Please pray for her mind and mouth to have peace, for situations to not escalate, and for things to change. Pray that I will be able to close my mouth when needed and know what to say when I have to speak.

3. Tyson starts a new job on Monday. Our life will be changing in the sense that he has to leave the house by about 6:30 each morning. The kids won't get to see him in the mornings anymore, or from Monday night until Thursday night because of the night classes he teaches. I am not looking forward to that! This is not "the job" nor does it enable him to quit his other job(s), but it is a job, and we are thankful. Hoping and praying life will feel more stable in some ways? It will be a give and take for sure. Thanks for everyone that has prayed for him to find something. Means lots.

4. I am tutoring 2 kiddos now, still keeping Julianne, and about to start keeping another 7 month old. It will be crazy to juggle all that. I am also typing for a friend's business, so yes, it can get crazier!

5. I went a little nuts during the home-bound sickness days and turned Tracen's room in the sunroom behind bookshelves into a playroom. I moved his bed and dresser into Mailey's room, and we are adding a bar to the closet so I can hang his clothes. After 2 years of living out of a suitcase or cubbies or shelves and a dresser, the boy will get to see his clothes again!! All of it might be worth it to me for that. I am not sure about the whole thing, but for the Summer I thought it would help to have a place to play. He and Mailey are definitely squeezed in to sleep, think 10x10 room with 2 beds and 2 dressers. It also still does not stop her wandering to our bed at night. Try explaining to a 2 year old that she is not sick so she can't keep coming in here, and that she is waking up her brother and sis who have school. Not successful. Last night at midnight I told her to go back to her bed. I went to check on her and she had taken Makenna's Kindle Fire off the charger in the kitchen and had fallen asleep holding it in her bed. She is a mess!!

6. Upward bball is over, and Tracen is playing "real" baseball for the first time. He has played for years in a very low-key league, and we knew it was now or never to switch. Problem is that he had to skip coaches pitch and go straight to pitching machine. That ball is whizzing by him, and contact has yet to be made with his bat! But like always, he is working hard and having fun and learning a lot, and that is all I care about.

7. A problem with the conversion of the sunroom is that our dogs used to go in the little space the back door and Tracen's gate to his room made when it was cold or rainy. No space. I am about to have to let them into my home. Oh my. I love them dearly, spend time with them, but do not let them inside unless it is freezing at night in their cage in our room. The cage is in the garage nearly every night besides. What am I going to do?? Just don't tell Beth Dallas. She will never come over again.


That is about it. Hopefully Spring will return soon, on every level of the word, to our house.

I leave you with random pictures: